Practical traction after a hard hit—field notes and tools for rebuilding without performative positivity
If you are in danger or feel unsafe, contact local emergency services or a crisis resource in your area right away. This post is reflective and educational in nature and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or legal advice. Hello there, standing on the ledge. How are y’all today? Well, I’m gonna be honest, … Continue reading I’m Not Lost on the Material. I’m Lost in the Structure
Hey there, Standing on the Ledge. How are y’all doing today? It has been a week. I missed a milestone for the website. Medical issues kind of threw everything into chaos, and I lost two days to that. Two days may not sound like much on paper, but when life is already packed tight, losing … Continue reading A Rough Week Is Not the Same Thing as a Failed One
Disclaimer: This post reflects personal experience and personal reflection. It is shared for educational and reflective purposes only and is not medical, psychological, or grief counselling advice. Memory changes, trauma responses, and symptoms following head injuries can have many causes. If you are struggling with memory loss, unresolved grief, emotional distress, or possible concussion-related issues, … Continue reading When the Soundtrack goes Missing
Some days do not fall apart all at once. They come apart one inconvenience, one phone call, one missing pill bottle, and one unwanted surprise at a time. Hey there, standing on the ledge. How are y’all doing today? Today is one of those setback days. I’m not going to sugarcoat it. Crap happens. The … Continue reading When the Small Stuff Piles Up Until It Isn’t Small
You hear the speech. You read the post. You feel that lift for a few minutes, maybe a day or two. You feel sharper. Stronger. More certain. Then life shows back up. The bills are still there. The stress is still there. The same habits, the same mess, the same weight on your chest. And … Continue reading Nothing to Land On
Not Every Win Is Loud Hey there, Standing on the Ledge. Late day post for me, and my apologies for that. It has been one heck of a day. Just go, go, go, go, go from the minute it started. And tomorrow morning, I am off to the doctor. Lots of fun, right? That said, … Continue reading Quiet progress is still progress
Hey there, Standing on the Ledge, all my Ledge Walkers out there, how are you doing today? I want to put a simple reminder out there today. Please check out the Tools & Protocols, the free stuff, and the Reader’s Guide. Please take a look at them. That is a big part of why this … Continue reading You Still Have to Pick It Up
Since December 21, 2025, I have been posting here on Standing on the Ledge to share my story of collapse and what it has looked like to try to rebuild from it. Along the way, I have written about the losses, the uncertainty, the exhaustion, the self-doubt, and the slow, uneven work of trying to … Continue reading The Tools Are Here. I Hope You’ll Use Them
Hey there, Standing on the Ledge, how are y’all today? Well, Friday is a wrap. It is now Saturday, March 21st, and I just finished my first 40-hour work week in quite a while. And I am tired. I am sore. I am worn out. But you know what? I am happy for that. There … Continue reading You get to Define the Win
Hey there, everybody, Standing on the Ledge. How are y’all today? Well, it’s the first day of spring, and what do we get? About two and a half to three inches of snow. Because apparently spring, at least around here, likes to arrive with a sense of humour. And then there’s the price of gas. … Continue reading Snow, spring and an honest days work
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