Reader's Moment There is pressure to make recovery look good. To have the lesson ready. To sound wise. To explain the transformation. To be grateful for the wound because it made you stronger. To turn the collapse into a clean story with a satisfying arc. Sometimes that arc exists. Often it does not exist yet. … Continue reading You Do Not Have to Perform Recovery to Be Rebuilding
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Your First Warning Light
If you’re “fine” all the time, that’s the problem. Phase 0 isn’t the collapse. It’s the pre-collapse. It’s the part where you’re still upright — but you’re doing it by performing. And you’re good at it. So good that people think you’re solid. So good that you can be falling apart inside and still hold … Continue reading Your First Warning Light

