Practical traction after a hard hit—field notes and tools for rebuilding without performative positivity
Hello, Standing on the Ledge. How are we today? In addition to the other posts going up, I needed to make this one. Lately, I have been going off the rails a little bit about certain motivational posts and motivational memes put out by various individuals. I am not going to name them at the … Continue reading More Than Motivation
You don’t start changing by becoming more. Not more disciplined. Not more impressive. Not more “fixed.” In Phase 2, “more” is often a trap. You don’t need a glow-up. You need ground. Phase 2 is traction, not transformation theatre When you’re rebuilding after a hit, you don’t need a better version of you. You need … Continue reading The Power of Less
“So as much as I hate seeing others go through their own hellhole I know there is nothing I can do but love them and leave my door open to them to join me, when they are ready to. I know there was nothing anyone could do or say that would have helped me, although … Continue reading An Open Door Isn’t Enough
The second brick emphasizes the importance of action over motivation, highlighting that true motivation comes from within rather than external pressures. It stresses showing up consistently, even when feeling unmotivated, and recognizing that you can influence others by nurturing your own inner fire, regardless of its intensity.
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