From collapse to traction—field notes for the climb back.
You survive the collapse… and then you realize the aftershock hasn’t hit yet. You know this moment: you’ve been fixing things, stabilizing things, finally breathing again—then a new awareness slides in that says, What if the worst still hasn’t come to pass? Hello, my friends on Standing on the Ledge. Another post for today. Sometimes … Continue reading The Calm Before the Storm
Phase 4 isn’t about winning arguments — it’s about building a repair standard that holds up under stress. Hey there, my fellow Ledge Walkers. You know the moment. You name the harm — calmly, clearly — and the conversation swerves into tone-policing, intent-defending, and word-splitting. Suddenly it’s not “What happened?” It’s “How dare you say … Continue reading Accountability Builds Trust
Good morning. Today is Tuesday, February 10, rapidly approaching Valentine’s Day—Lupercalia to some. This one goes into my private, personal notes. Today’s astrology Having fame and fortune can be very seductive and incredibly appealing from a distance. In fact, there are many people who pine for these statuses throughout their lives. However, there are certainly … Continue reading Understanding the Hidden Costs of Fame and Fortune
Hey, and welcome back to Standing on the Ledge and Rebuilding from the Rubble. I got back from the big city a little while ago after my nerve conduction test. Good news: we do not have carpal tunnel syndrome, so there’s no operation required. That said—“no carpal tunnel” doesn’t mean “nothing’s going on.” The best … Continue reading Communication and Conflict Management
The writing reflects on the impact of work overload on personal connections, emphasizing the loss of reciprocity in friendships. The author explores feelings of social rejection, the cultural shift towards isolation, and the inherent responsibility in maintaining relationships. Ultimately, it advocates accepting the reality of expired connections without bitterness.
The post emphasizes the importance of acknowledging one's past while advocating for moving forward. It encourages embracing growth and lessons learned without becoming attached to previous experiences. The author urges readers to let go of stagnation and take small steps towards the future, affirming identity and resilience in the process.
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