Not because anything big happened—but because I’m finally admitting something I’ve been dodging:setbacks aren’t surprises anymore.They’re part of the rhythm.Part of the rebuild.Part of what happens when you’re trying to move forwardwhile still shaking the dust off your shoulders. Today I found myself standing on that ledge again—the spot where the ground drops awayjust enough … Continue reading Embracing Setbacks: A Path to Intentional Change
There’s a momentright before the fall,right before the breath catches,right before the world tilts—where everything feels sharp.Edges feel closer.Steps feel heavier.And the smallest sound feels like it could break you open. If that’s where you are,listen. Because I know that place.I’ve lived in that sky-thin margin between “I’m okay”and“I can’t do this anymore.” And lately, … Continue reading Navigating Life After Collapse: Steps to Recovery
Standing in the Rubble — Part 7: “Learning to Move Through It” Part 7. We’re still here in the rubble—but something’s changing.Not the landscape, not yet.But the way I’m moving through it. I used to think rebuilding meant stacking things neatly, corner by corner, step by step.But after a while, the “brick-by-brick” philosophy started feeling … Continue reading Navigating Life’s Rubble: Finding Strength in Chaos
Day 6.The third brick.And this one… it surprised me. Because before I could lay it down, I had to do something that felt wrong, almost rebellious:I stepped away.Took a day.Just… stopped. Not a “pretend break” where your body rests but your mind keeps running laps.Not the kind where you’re still checking messages or mentally drafting … Continue reading Finding Clarity Through Pause
Day 5.The second brick.The one you lay down after you’ve finally given yourself permission to matter.This brick is heavier than I expected—not because it’s complicated, but because it asks something honest: How do you move when you don’t feel like moving?And even harder—How do you spark motivation in people who look at you like they’re … Continue reading Ignite Your Motivation: The Discipline Brick Unveiled
Alright—Part 4.This is where we talk about the first brick.Not the whole rebuild.Not the blueprint.Just that one small, heavy, necessary thing you place down when you decide you’re done living in collapse. But let me be real with you first. Running a business while standing in the rubble?It hits different.It’s like trying to rebuild your … Continue reading Laying the First Brick: Permission to Rebuild
So… what’s up with all these ‘Standing in the Rubble’ videos/posts?” Alright, so a bunch of you have been asking, “Why all these ‘standing in the rubble’ posts? What’s with the theme? Are you good?”And yeah—fair question. Here’s the deal. These vlogs (blog)… they’re kinda three things mashed together:self-help, giving back, and me just trying … Continue reading Understanding ‘Standing in the Rubble’: A Raw Take on Life
So here we are—Day 3.If you’ve made it this far, you already know the theme.The rubble.The aftermath.The uncomfortable honesty of being in-between who you were and who you’re trying to become. But this one… this one’s about the moment you stop pretending. Because at some point—after the shock wears off, after the adrenaline runs out—your … Continue reading From Breakdown to Breakthrough: Navigating Life’s Challenges
Hey again.If you’re back here, it means you survived the night you thought would finish you.It means you’re still standing—maybe bruised, maybe exhausted, maybe confused—but standing all the same. So this time, I want to talk about what comes after the collapse.After the shock.After the silence.After that moment when you finally stop asking, “Why did … Continue reading Embracing the Aftermath: How to Start Again
When You’re Standing in the Rubble Hey everyone…Hey there! So you feels like life is collapsing right underneath them.Or Maybe it already has.Maybe you’re watching pieces of your world slip out of your hands, one after another, and you’re thinking, “How much more can I lose before I lose myself?” If that’s you…Sit with me … Continue reading When Rock Bottom Becomes a New Beginning
Standing on the Ledge 