From collapse to traction—field notes for the climb back.
The author reflects on the importance of rituals in daily life as a means to create structure and emotional regulation. Using tarot for personal insight, they explore past upheavals, present victories, and future cautions. Small, consistent routines help build stability and foster a sense of control amidst change.
My Conflict Style Scorecard: What I Actually Do Under Pressure I did a conflict-management styles activity and scored myself across five modes: Avoid, Compete, Accommodate, Compromise, and Collaborate. I’m not treating this like a personality label. It’s more like a snapshot of what I tend to reach for when tension shows up — especially when … Continue reading My Journey Through Conflict Styles and Solutions
The author reflects on their current mental state, questioning whether persistent thoughts are hindering progress in job hunting and rebuilding life. Emphasizing small accomplishments over grand plans, they propose a morning routine that incorporates manageable tasks and social check-ins to regain focus. The importance of anchors in mitigating overwhelm is highlighted.
The content emphasizes practical job hunting strategies post-collapse, covering essential tips on applications, resumes, cover letters, and interviews. It highlights the importance of discernment during interviews, maintaining professionalism, and the significance of online presence. Ultimately, it underscores the need for honesty and strategic approaches in the job search process.
On days devoid of motivation, engaging in physical movement serves as a catalyst for recovery. Emphasizing the importance of discipline over inspiration, the author highlights strategies like small actions and support systems. Recognizing the wider socio-economic context of struggles fosters resilience, allowing individuals to rebuild and regain agency in their lives.
The author reflects on their job search experience, navigating feelings of overqualification and the common challenge of employer silence. Advocating for dignity and self-presentation, they resist pressure tactics while applying strategically. They emphasize clear communication about their intentions without chasing opportunities, focusing on maintaining self-worth amid uncertainty.
The author reflects on the emotional complexity of endings and the discomfort of role exit. They recognize a tendency to seek information from others as a coping mechanism for anxiety and decide to stop this behavior. Emphasizing self-discipline, they acknowledge challenges while celebrating personal achievements, like publishing a book.
The author reflects on their job search after transitioning from business owner to seeking general labor roles, emphasizing a desire for stability over status. They challenge societal perceptions of downward career movement, advocating for the choice of autonomy and sanity over pressure. The piece highlights the importance of prioritizing personal well-being.
The author reflects on a recent experience of feeling stuck and unproductive, grappling with internal struggles that led to procrastination. They emphasize the importance of movement, even in small ways, to combat stagnation. The writer shares plans to continue documenting their journey through various platforms while remaining open to change.
Standing on the Ledge 